Have you tried anal sex? Are you thinking about trying anal sex? Suppose you consider any sex but specifically anal sex. In that case, I recommend getting tested for STDs, wearing condoms, using a lot of lube, and communicating with your partner about sex-positive healthy questions before a sexual act is an innovative, safe, and fun way to start learning consent and boundaries. Do you know kids have more anal sex because they think they are still virgins and pure? This is why we need to VOTE and have sex education in schools and teach kids &...
2022-10-01 13:36:00 +0000 UTC
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Which sexy photo is your favorite? Thank you for being a fan and supporting me. Please share #drresa @drresa with others and spread my information and important sexy words. Xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
2022-09-28 02:59:35 +0000 UTC
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Are you religious? Do you go to church weekly? Do you talk about science and religion? Have you had an abortion, mammograms, MRIs, IVF, or any procedure? Do you take medicines to keep you healthier and alive? Science and technology developed these surprising ways for us to stay on our life journey longer. If you are religious and you want to get pregnant, are you exploring scientific methods to get pregnant? IVF, acupuncture, freezing eggs, etc. Hmm, are you being a hypocrite or lying to yourself that it is ok to use these services. I am asking...
2022-09-24 14:04:34 +0000 UTC
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Are you confident? What is stopping you from being confident and sexy? Could it be the four fears of confidence? This world teaches us fear through religion, politics, and media. They use real/fake news and fear-mongering strategies. Are you ready to learn the four worries of confidence? First, we need to change our habits and start working on four ways to be confident and make this world, religion, and the political world more proactive and positive in our lives. 1. Fear of being yourself. It would help if you conquered the fear. Your homework...
2022-09-14 17:14:12 +0000 UTC
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“For Yourself, The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality” has been on my bookshelf for almost 20 years. I have the original 1976 Edition. When I got this book, I was about 15 years old. I wasn’t ready to read it at that age, but I knew that during my 20s, I should of read this book all the way through & follow the exercises on masturbation on my own. I started it a few times but never read the whole book until now. I finally finished it and wished I had read it years ago, worked and did the exercises & learned about my body. During my 2...
2022-09-09 14:50:24 +0000 UTC
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Do you know the anatomy of the female pelvis? Are you ready to learn where your female organs are, including the egg-producing ovaries and the uterine tubes that carry the eggs into the uterus for potential fertilization by male sperm? Of course, this also includes the vagina, the entryway to the uterus. What and where is your Uterus? Also called the womb, the uterus is a hollow, pear-shaped organ located in a woman's lower abdomen, between the bladder and the rectum. Where are your ovaries? The ovaries are the two female reproductive organs lo...
2022-09-04 01:53:26 +0000 UTC
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Do you think you could be sexy and professional? What about sexy and a parent? Could you be sexy with yourself and or your partner? What is sexy to you? Sexy to me is confidence, courage, being true to yourself, making your own decisions, how passionate you live your life, you want others to be better people, and you want to love and be loved. I was born to be in the sex industry. Does that sound crazy, taboo, wild, or forbidden? I have been intrigued and enamored to learn about this hidden world that made so much sense to me. Over 25 years in ...
2022-08-27 21:47:00 +0000 UTC
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What is sex trafficking? Sex trafficking is a form of modern slavery where adults and children are being coerced into doing sex acts against their will. What is sex work/prstitution? Prstitution is the business or practice of engaging in sexual activity in exchange for payment. If a consenting adult chooses to be in the sex industry, that is NOT sex trafficking. What are ways to make consenting adults who wish to be in the sex industry a safe environment for themselves and those who want to see us? I believe unsafe, unhealthy ways of sex are in...
2022-08-20 20:02:53 +0000 UTC
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Would you happen to know what today is? Are you ready to make this your favorite day? Do you take time for yourself every day to learn and love yourself? Today is masturbation Monday. A self-touch, self-love, self-connection, self-care, and self-confidence day. Are you ready to be your authentic sexual self? Let’s start by learning about you first. Then, please dig deep on Mondays, break those barriers of what your family, work, religion, and friends are doing, and find the true you.
Does that sound scary and exciting? Are you ready for a cha...
2022-08-15 16:38:05 +0000 UTC
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Would you go to a class called Pelvic, breath, and spine? What do you think you would learn from that class? What is the pelvic area, and where is it? Do you breathe really, breathe and feel each breath and moment? How’s your posture? Do you stand up straight, or are you on your phone or computer all day looking down? Take a moment and stand up straight, stretch your arms, take a big loud breath, and say ahh. Try that three more times! The pelvic area includes the uterus(also called the womb), ovaries, fallopian tubes, c*rvix, vagina & vu...
2022-08-06 19:39:48 +0000 UTC
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Do you know self-touch, aka masturbation, is healthy? Did you know that it helps relieve stress and brings more joy to your life? Masturbation is right for your health mentally and physically. Did you know it is the safest sex out there, and there’s no risk of getting pregnant or getting an STI(STD)? Today is Masturbation Monday! When was the last time you took time for yourself to let go and have an orgasm?
Do you know what happens when you have an orgasm? Your body releases endorphins; these hormones block pain and make you feel good. Are y...
2022-08-01 23:26:27 +0000 UTC
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What can you do, as a parent, to instill the positive attitudes to embrace their bodies and sexuality? A client of mine emailed me this question, and I would love to hear your thoughts below? First, as a parent, you need to be comfortable in your skin. You need to be ready and confident with your body and sexuality. Are you prepared to learn to be your true authentic self? You will instill sex-positive, sexual health, and non-judgmental practices to yourself, your partner, and your kids if you're ready. Remember, each body part is precious and ...
2022-07-26 15:25:59 +0000 UTC
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Did you know Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, and many other social media platforms are blocking, removing, flagging, shadow banning, and trying to make sex educators disappear? Do you know why? The conservatives and religious people are finally getting away and destroying America because Trump was in office. They start with fear and remove anything sex-related. Do you know how important sex education and sexual health are? Since Trump signed the Fosta Sesta bill, my life and many others are in harm's way, and most have lost their income to surviv...
2022-07-18 15:47:08 +0000 UTC
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Are you feeling yourself? I am feeling myself. I am feeling myself. These are sexy words from a Beyonce song. I love that artists can speak their minds and truth. Do you think it is okay for singers and actors to sing and act about sexual pleasures? It is excellent that they can portray their sexiness on stage or film, but why can’t I? Did you know that most sexologists, sex educators, and sexual health specialists get shadowbanned, blocked, removed, flagged, and looked down upon because we are helping ourselves and others? If we are not a ...
2022-07-06 14:34:03 +0000 UTC
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What are the best sex positions to use a vibrator? What's the best girl on top position that you can include with a vibe? Who's holding the vibe? What's great about these positions? What are the best sex positions for two vulva-owners who want to share the vibrator in the sexual experience? A couple of examples would be lotus or scissoring? Why is adding a vibe to oral sex so damn hot? Is there a super intimate sex position you'd recommend for folks who like to feel snuggly and close? Spooning or any others? Any tips for solo-touch or masturbat...
2022-06-21 02:58:06 +0000 UTC
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May Masturbation Month!!! Can you believe it's already May 2nd? Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, think about it but I don’t masturbate enough. I am guilty just like you. We get busy, we make excuses or we don’t think about it. Ready to change that? Now it is May my favorite month to explore myself, my body, my vessel, and guess what it’s free fun and you learn more about YOU! The more we learn and love ourselves first the happier we are to connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends...
2022-06-14 02:59:05 +0000 UTC
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Did you start May Masturbation Month off with a bang or an orgasm? Today is Day 3 of National Masturbation Day. What do you think it's called in Britain and Australia? “Wankers Day” is an annual event celebrated on May 28th to protect and perform the right to masturbate. So why would we only enjoy this day once a year? Luckily International masturbation day expanded to include the entire month. Let’s make time for self-touch, self-love, self-connection, self-care, and self-confidence every day of the year. We need to take time to release ...
2022-05-23 17:56:03 +0000 UTC
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#Maymasturbationmonth & Masturbation Monday. Do you have a mental illness? Some of the more common disorders are #depression, #bipolar disorder, dementia, schizophrenia, and anxiety disorders. Symptoms may include changes in mood, personality, personal habits, and social withdrawal. What are your daily practices to control your mental illness? Mine is #meditation, #yoga, masturbation, walking, breathing, and medicine. I take 20mg #lexapro daily, medical marijuana edibles, and I finally got off #adderal or #evekeo for attention deficit disor...
2022-05-09 19:45:06 +0000 UTC
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May Masturbation Month!!! Can you believe it's already May 4th? Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, think about it but I don’t masturbate enough. I am guilty just like you. We get busy, we make excuses or we don’t think about it. Ready to change that? Now it is May my favorite month to explore myself, my body, my vessel, and guess what it’s free fun and you learn more about YOU! The more we learn and love ourselves first the happier we are to connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends...
2022-05-04 17:26:09 +0000 UTC
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I love my New York City. It’s April, my Birthday month, and Spring is in the air! Remember to breathe, stretch, move, sleep, eat good nutritious foods, connect online, write, sing, dance, play, slow down, and have fun.
I love celebrating my birthday in New York with my friends. NY has magical energy, and it's the best place on earth. At this time, let's celebrate online and through the lens.
Please share below your favorite sexy New York City pictures. Remember, you are hot, confident, charming, courageous, and worth it. xoxo DR @drresa #dr...
2022-05-01 23:50:12 +0000 UTC
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I am craving sushi, sake, and a happy ending. xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
2022-04-29 00:53:26 +0000 UTC
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My coaching style is sex-positive, confident, healthy, real, honest, and straight to the point. My communicative approach helps you open up, expose and unleash your vulnerable side. You can start living a life you never thought was possible. I ask you to be as honest as you can during our sessions. We will face things together, and I will hold a safe, comfortable and non-judgment space for you to focus on your sexuality. There will be times that I challenge you to think differently, and it may be uncomfortable for a moment. However, pushing you...
2022-04-28 18:45:15 +0000 UTC
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What is nudity? Is being nude/naked a form of art, creativity, freedom, or exploration? Unfortunately, our world is powered by religion through money, power, and control. That is why anything related to sex is forbidden, taboo, and full of shame.
We are brainwashed to believe that ALL nudity is either sexual or obscene, so let's remove it from society, including photography, paintings, explicit words, movies, shows, etc. But why is that okay?
What do you think about it?
Really think about what you want, not your religion, family, work, friend...
2022-04-26 19:19:59 +0000 UTC
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How is your weekend? Most weekends, do you do the same thing? Are you ready to try something NEW? Will you try something different and flirt while you are doing it? Comment below what flirting is to you? How do you flirt? What kind of flirting do you like? While you were in isolation and quarantine, did you learn a new way to flirt? With your personality. Wow! Here are three tips and tricks to teasing through the lens and online dating. 1. Smile. Remember to smile with your eyes and mouth and ask questions, listen, learn, and be you. Finally, y...
2022-04-24 00:05:18 +0000 UTC
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Do you know about the Fosta/Sesta Bill? This bill is affecting more people than you think. Could you be one of them? This law is to fight sex trafficking. This bill does not punish traffickers but consenting adults who work in the sex industry. Includes (sex workers, sex coaches, strippers, gynecologists, lingerie shops, cam girls, masseuses, tantra, BDSM, and many others. Do you think this threatens legitimate online speech and censorship? Since Congress passed this April 2018, Backpage closed down; Craigslist removed the adult section, sex ed...
2022-04-21 18:33:45 +0000 UTC
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Do you love to kiss? What's your favorite kind of kiss: a peck, an Eskimo kiss, a French kiss, a forehead kiss, a kiss on the hand, a single lip kiss, the lingering tease kiss, the cheek kiss, ear lobe kiss, butterfly kiss, leave a mark (lipstick kiss), lizard kiss, wet kiss, air kiss (mwaah), a kiss of angle (kiss on the eyelids), seductive kiss, the bite, and nibble kiss, the (hold your) jaw kiss, the vampire kiss, or blow a kiss? What are new, safe, smart, sexy, flirty ways to kiss?
Now that we are isolating ourselves and connecting more on...
2022-04-18 14:51:12 +0000 UTC
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Are you interested in knowing what saved my life and my constipation issues? In a past blog, I talked about (TMI) too much information and bowel movements. For over six years, I was constipated, b*leeding, uncertain & stressed over why and what were the issues with my gut. I was only seeing western doctors, using my health insurance, I spent an extra (out of my pocket) thousands of dollars on prescriptions, a colonoscopy, and a nutrition specialist. Still, nothing changed, and doctors would give me medicine & hope for the best. I had so...
2022-04-14 21:09:33 +0000 UTC
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Have you performed a striptease lap dance? Did you enjoy it? What did you get out of it? What songs did you dance to? Would you do it again? Answer the questions below, and I will send you a Free worksheet on how to start a striptease! Look out for how to striptease and lap dance moves, ideas, worksheets & exercises. Sexy striptease quotes, articles, stories, and more! Share below your striptease lap dance stories and photos! The more you share, the more we can learn from each other. Remember, you are sexy, confident, beautiful inside &...
2022-04-12 17:09:10 +0000 UTC
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It's here, everything -
Everything anyone ever
Dreamed of, and more.
But love is lost:
The only sacrifice
To live in this heaven,
This Disneyland
Where people are the games.
poem by Dorothy Stratten talking about the Playboy Mansion and the lifestyle
2022-04-09 20:45:13 +0000 UTC
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Twenty-four more days till May Masturbation Month. What does that mean to you? Let me start with why self-love, self-touch, and self-care are important. Do you take time for yourself, at least an hour a day? What about an hour a week? Do you make excuses for learning and loving yourself? I love the month of May! Do you think self-touch is essential for our health and well-being? Most people think masturbation is touching and arousing your genitals. That could be part of it, but there are so many more beautiful parts of your body to explore. Are...
2022-04-08 02:25:05 +0000 UTC
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