What's going on in your head today? What are you going to do to hear less chatter & enjoy this lovely day? I would love to listen to your ideas? Have you met someone who is amazing & wants to hear & listen? Did you know I offer sex, relationship, and confidence coaching? You can talk to me!!! xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-10-20 13:44:41 +0000 UTC View Post
Sex & Anxiety I feel like it's a hidden disease. Do you? Do you want to learn more? Every day I'm learning & sharing my story to help you. Writing it down, speaking it, videoing it, whatever works to feel better, feel alive, feel worthy, feel whole. My anxiety & mind chatter all day gets in the way with SEX...Like, Follow my @askdrresa Facebook Page for more Sex-Positive Advice! Our body and mind are our new toy, adventure, exploration, love, passion, a pleasure to find your strength, confidence your most fabulous self & live...
2021-10-17 13:21:45 +0000 UTC View Post
Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, think about it, but I don't masturbate enough. I am guilty, just like you. We get busy, we make excuses, or we don't think about it. Ready to change that? It is the end of the year, and we get busy and forget to take time to explore ourselves, our body, our vessel, and guess what it's free fun, and you learn more about YOU! The more we know and love ourselves first, the happier we are to connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends, religion, work who usua...
2021-10-15 12:10:06 +0000 UTC View PostAre you ready for some new s*xy photos, videos, and blogs? I wake up every morning, loving what I do. Do you? This is my passion, my livelihood, and I was born this way!!! I think, breathe, and get excited by helping people like you become their genuinely authentic s*xual selves. Yes, I post many taboo, risqué, forbidden photos. Are the photos and videos catching your attention? Photoshoots and cameras bring anxiety to my body, so I get scared of being in front of a camera. The more you practice you get so comfortable and confident, and throug...
2021-10-13 14:50:58 +0000 UTC View Post
Masturbation Monday on over & enjoy me in a bubble bath! Cum join me & get nice & wet! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-11 12:37:46 +0000 UTC View PostWhat would you do to me on this sexy balcony overlooking the Caribbean Sea? Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-09 00:22:08 +0000 UTC View PostWould you skinny dip and get naked with me in a public swimming pool, bay or ocean? What would happen if we got caught? Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-07 21:52:45 +0000 UTC View PostI loved living on the beaches of Mexico during Covid 2020! I loved the fresh air, the beach, the ocean, the wind in my hair. Now that’s it’s getting colder on the east coast, you will see more clothes on me. Enjoy this sexy photoshoot! Check your mailbox to see the full videos for a price upgrade!! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-05 00:02:51 +0000 UTC View PostCum flirt with me on this Friday!! Tip me, spoil me & let’s have some naked fun!! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-10-01 13:17:32 +0000 UTC View PostWill you catch me? Watch out for a paid upgrade email to see me get fully naked on the ropes! What would you do to me on here?! Xoxo 💋 #drresa
2021-09-30 16:20:41 +0000 UTC View PostDo you like my mask costume? Should I wear it for Halloween? Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-09-29 00:05:26 +0000 UTC View PostHalloween 👻 🎃 or Day of the Dead costume!! Enjoy this video! The rest of the video will be a paid upgrade! Check your mailbox 📫 tomorrow! You will love it! Xoxo 💋
2021-09-28 01:42:29 +0000 UTC View PostDo you like mushrooms? Tip me how much you love to taste my mushrooms? Enjoy!! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-09-26 14:08:51 +0000 UTC View Post
What song would you striptease to for your partner or yourself? I’m a slave for you by Britney Spears was a top favorite song I loved to strip to! Shout out to Britney. I saw her in concert years ago, but next time she is touring, I will be at her concert, and I will be Live on IG dancing to that song! I also had a sticker of Britney in my locker at the strip club. Wow. That was over 20 years ago! I love her costumes, her dance moves, and her confidence through this particular song and video! Do you remember the yellow seven-foot albino Burme...
2021-09-23 23:12:24 +0000 UTC View Post
Do you remember what life was like before cell phones? Do you miss times when people would talk, not take pictures of everything and live life at that moment? What would you do if you didn’t have your cell phone for 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, or even 1 y*r? Do you get a lot done when you use your phone, or do you waste more time swiping, scrolling, and doing things that don’t really matter? Do you get on your phone more when you have anxiety or when you get shy, and it’s your security blanket? I am guilty, just like you. It’s a bad habit ...
2021-09-14 18:35:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Where was I in my sexologist journey 8 y*rs ago? Wow, where does the time go? I was living in sunny San Diego for 18 y*rs and loving every moment of it. I got my bachelor's in Business Marketing at SDSU; I stripped to help me pay for college, bought property, traveled, and built EbyResa Striptease Lap Dance Lessons. San Diego living was a huge part of my 20s and 30’s. 10 y*rs ago, I was teaching striptease lap dance lessons daily, and I was ready for a change to be more credible. I decided to move to San Francisco in 2013 to get my doctorate ...
2021-09-13 23:11:39 +0000 UTC View Post
On September 11, 2001, what were you doing? Where we you at? Were you born yet? Were you living a great life or building your life? I was in San Diego, still sleeping. My phone started ringing, and everyone called and started watching their televisions. Schools and work closed for the day, and you can tell everything changed from that moment on. I was y*oung, not into politics, religion, and having fun. In 2001, I graduated from San Diego State University, I was stripping at Cheetahs in San Diego, and I was saving money to buy my first home. I ...
2021-09-12 22:39:04 +0000 UTC View Post
It's been a wild week, month, and year—lots of emotions & life changes. We need to focus on being positive. Let's keep thinking good thoughts & help as much as we can, and give as much as we can. That's with life & love and living each day to the fullest. You never know what's going to happen! What are you going to do today to live your life to the fullest? I'm working on my Dr. Resa Sexy Sexologist's biz. My vision, my goals & how I can help You! Your stories, ideas, inspirations help you & help me & many others! Reme...
2021-09-11 18:28:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Would you use a Masturbation Orgasm Tracker App? I have been working on one! Who would love an app right on your phone to journal and track when and how you masturbated today? You can track and update your orgasms to remind you to take time out of your day for self-care, release and or meditate. The 3 P’s practice, persistence, and patience will help you learn new ways to love your body inside and out. Start your day off right by masturbating, and then fill out the MOT form. Comment below or DM me your email address for a FREE Sex MOT Form! R...
2021-09-10 13:16:35 +0000 UTC View Post
Self-care for You? I dance, sing around mostly to musical theater and some other genres 🙂 What's your favorite musical? Or what do you dance & sing to? I would love to see your self-care practices? This helps me get out of my anxious mind & enjoy moments, slow down & really get into the moves, the connection, the feeling! It's a choice & a decision & I'm still working on it. The more I practice anything, the more I feel more confident & Sexy. That makes me feel alive! What about you? xoxo, R #drresa
2021-09-09 17:39:36 +0000 UTC View Post
To really learn and love yourself, you have to get deep, raw, and real with yourself. You will have to ask yourself a lot of questions and experience many new things. Does that sound scary? Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? I learn every day by speaking my truth, being vulnerable, and showing you who I am through my blogs, videos, and social media. Interested in my sex intake form for sex, relationship & confidence coaching? This form will help you start your journey to start living your sexy, confident real self! Comment...
2021-09-02 15:31:07 +0000 UTC View Post
Summers almost over! What's something you have never done? Why are you waiting to do it? Because you are scared, other people's advice, busy, too difficult, we give up. Romeo & I are starting a Challenge? Who's ready to join me? 45 sexy things to do now that I'm almost 45! I started a list before I was 40! #noexcuses I'm finishing the list. I will share my list of 45 winning prizes who join the Challenge. Are you ready to join us with your list, inspiration, stories, photos! Happy Wednesday Hump Day! Come play with me! xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-09-01 17:12:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Summer is almost over! What's something you have never done? Why are you waiting to do it? Because you are scared, other people's advice, busy, too difficult, we give up. Romeo & I are starting a Challenge? Who's ready to join me? 44 sexy things to do now that I'm 44! I started a list before I was 40 #noexcuses I'm finishing the list. I will share my list of 40 winning prizes joining the Challenge, the rules & we would love for you to join us with your list, inspiration, stories, photos! xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-08-28 15:33:19 +0000 UTC View Post
Are you being safe? In this crazy new world we live in we need to make smart choices. Have you always been safe wearing condoms? How about washing your hands and wearing masks? These things have more to do with thinking of the safety of others, not just you. What do you do during these changing times to be safe in the streets and in the sheets? xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-08-27 15:10:47 +0000 UTC View Post
Do you want to hear me talking about my dating life? What about sexy #selfcare ideas? I would love to talk about that, but politics get in the way, and if we don’t speak our truth and fix these issues, myself and many others will go away. What that means- onlyfans, all online dating, social sites, porn sites, and anything sexual. Many more sex video/toy stores & strip clubs will shut their doors. Wake up, America. We need to make America sexy again or finally. That means loving yourself & knowing your passions, beliefs, and desires. T...
2021-08-25 19:57:35 +0000 UTC View Post
Did you set up a photoshoot? It builds confidence, memories, helps with anxiety, explores new places, sees a different side of yourself and others, and many other healthy ways to build yourself up! What kind of Photos are you going to be in or take? Please comment below, and I would love to see your photos? xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-08-24 14:42:51 +0000 UTC View Post
Happy Masturbation Monday my sexy, hot spicy ones!! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-08-09 17:27:45 +0000 UTC View Post
Is masturbation one of your habits? Do you self-touch and self-explore every day? When you touch yourself, do you use your hands and fingers? Or do you use a dildo, vibrator, or a sex toy? What’s your form of getting excited to self-pleasure yourself? Pornography or sexy photos on your phone, computer, DVDs, VHS tapes, magazines, or a fantasy/imagination? Have you tried mutual masturbation with your partner? What about spicing up your self-care regimen with different positions, a new location, not using porn or a toy, and trying something dif...
2021-08-06 16:42:45 +0000 UTC View Post
What are the 3 P’s to achieve multiple body orgasms? Practice, Patience, and Persistence. Are you having orgasms? Do you only release one orgasm, and you are done? Have you ever experienced multiple full-body orgasms? There are so many reasons why I am so passionate about teaching masturbation and orgasms. It is healthy, pleasurable, accessible, and fun. It helps with stress, anxiety, sleep, pain, and so many other positive benefits. So why is it so hard for myself and others to let go and have the best orgasms? Just turning 44 I am still try...
2021-08-05 17:22:27 +0000 UTC View Post
