Do you know what a dollar is? Have you ever worked and paid all your bills from rent, school, books, food, health care, car insurance, phone bills, etc.? Or did your family give you a handout for everything and anything? I realized many people who got the help really don't understand how hard it is to make a dollar. Do you understand? Did you have to work at a y*ung age and pay for things out of your pocket? I started babysitting at 12 years old for $2 an hour almost every weekend. Yes, that was in the late '80s, but it taught me about money an...
2022-02-01 18:58:15 +0000 UTC
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Do you know how to remove your clothes sexy, slowly, and seductively for yourself and or a partner? Have you been practicing the different striptease moves from the DVDs? Are you practicing ways to take off your clothes during a striptease dance? Please check my video clip from EbyResa's Striptease Lap Dance DVD on how to look sexy, confident while moving your body, teasing and enjoying a striptease while removing each piece of clothing. Remember, you are amazing, courageous, fun, exciting, and ready to be your best version! Practice, patience,...
2022-01-30 23:31:02 +0000 UTC
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What are you doing today to start your week off on a sexy note? Today is a great day to take time and enjoy yourself. I would love to hear your stories on self-care, self-love, and steps to become your true authentic sexual self! Do you take an hour out of your day just for yourself? Have you ever masturbated or learned to enjoy your free body and vessel? What are the reasons you are not taking time to learn and love your mind and body? If you love yourself first, you will be in such a better place to live your life passionately and share your ...
2022-01-27 21:55:34 +0000 UTC
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Are you stressed? What are you stressed about? Is it the weather, your family, your work, money, health, and life that stresses you out? We would love to hear your smart, sexy, healthy ways that lessen your stress levels? Do you do yoga, masturbate, run, do drugs, drink, watch TV, scroll on your phones, eat, meditate, sleep, have sex? These are some of my ways to get out of my head and not stress. It is a daily struggle trying to get out of my head and really be in the now and the moment. This last week I have been more anxious, and I feel like...
2022-01-25 18:46:14 +0000 UTC
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Would you travel by yourself? Would you go to the movies by yourself? Would you go to dinner by yourself? What will you do by yourself for at least an hour today? Start small!! Please comment below and tell me how you felt before, during, and after. It may be different, difficult, or out of your comfort zone to do something on your own instead of having a friend, a partner, or a family member with you. What would you do sitting by yourself at a restaurant or sitting alone at the movies? Could you drive cross country on your own (or bring an ani...
2022-01-23 16:34:16 +0000 UTC
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Have you heard of FOSTA/SESTA? You heard of Backpage and Craiglist, right? I advertised for the past ten years on BP & CL(well, I used to) since Trump signed The Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) and Allowed States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA) are the U.S. Senate and House bills that as the FOSTA-SESTA package became law last April 11, 2018. The bill sounds great to remove sex trafficking, but there’s always a positive side of sex, and that includes me. I am Dr.Resa; sexy sexologist, a consenting adult, ...
2022-01-21 20:33:41 +0000 UTC
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What kind of health insurance do you have, and what's your premium? Do you pay for health insurance out of your own pocket, or does your work pay for it? How much is your monthly health insurance premium and deductible? Or do you not have health insurance and hope for the best? What do you think of Obama Care and or a better health care system solution? I am asking all these questions because I feel like I can never move forward or go over the hump of understanding why this system is so corrupt. Are you wondering the same thing? Questioning why...
2022-01-18 20:43:56 +0000 UTC
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Did you tap your tulips today, aka breast today? Did you know massaging your breast and body, you are moving lymph tissue, your body's energy & bl*od flow! Self-care is very important for your mind, body & soul. I highly recommend practicing breast health every Tuesday with exercise & breath health techniques starting with tap your tulips. What is the tulip? The acupressure point pattern around the breast increases health by increasing movement. The tulip tap focuses on 6 points around the breast (picture it like drawing dots) and c...
2022-01-16 19:16:04 +0000 UTC
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Are you enjoying and taking time for yourself & masturbating and letting go the first week of the New Year? What about meditating, yoga, stretching, breathing, walking, exploring, writing,and really slowing down and having fun with yourself first. When we speak our minds, we learn and grow on the way. From the day I started stripping to getting my doctorate in human sexuality, I really feel like I was born to help others and myself to be my true authentic sexual self. In my bio, click the link to enjoy more hilarious, edgy Youtube videos, I...
2022-01-14 02:51:58 +0000 UTC
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Are you ready to flirt? What is flirting to you? Are you ready to let your hair down and be the sexy, confident person you deserve to be? Remember you are amazing, funtastic, exciting & courageous. Are you ready to make 2022 the best year ever? Flirting helps you connect, smile and it has many health benefits, including building confidence and self-esteem, building positive energy for yourself and others, making you feel good, helping reduce your stress, and strengthening and building your relationships. Wikipedia defines flirting as a soci...
2022-01-12 04:23:54 +0000 UTC
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Do you have a friend, a family member, or a coworker that you share all your secrets, challenges, and life stories? Can you call them up or visit them right now if you need a shoulder to cry on and or laugh with? I asked a handful of people of all ages this question, and most people don’t have that friend they can count on and get deep and raw with. Would you like a friend who you can talk to and be your true authentic self? Wouldn’t it be nice to talk to someone who is not judging you and wanting to get to know the real you? This kind of p...
2022-01-08 18:38:20 +0000 UTC
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Have you been exploring and touching yourself this week? What is masturbation to you? The definition is the sexual stimulation of one's own genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm. Masturbation is not just a sexual act. It is an experience, a connection to go deep and find out who you are and what your life is all about. For me, it is an everyday practice (plus struggle) to help me slow down, breathe, connect, feel and enjoy every moment to get to know my body inside and out. Are you ready for a rebo...
2022-01-08 03:14:12 +0000 UTC
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Scroll to the right to enjoy the videos of this photoshoot. What do you think of the forbidden list of words that CDC can not use? T*ransgender, f*etus, v*ulnerable, e*ntitlement, d*iversity, evidence-based & science-based. What is happening with America? Are they going to forbid the hot taboo words that we are all thinking and that most of us think about or do! Or are those words already banned? Does not make sense. Why? Hmm, maybe control, power from religion & the Bible? I’m trying to stay positive, and I will keep speaking my trut...
2021-12-31 02:19:36 +0000 UTC
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What kind of ornament would you put on a sex educational Christmas Tree/Hanukkah Bush? What kind of sexy, real, authentic gift would you like under the tree this year? Would you please share your ornament ideas and stories? The more we share, the more we learn, the more we become our true sexy (s)elves! Winter and the holidays in NYC, I decided to get a tree! How would a sexy sexologist decorate a tree? Hmm, sexy, kinky, educational, funny, and something different? Please check out all the sexy, funny Christmas holiday videos at Youtube.com/drr...
2021-12-26 02:39:43 +0000 UTC
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What part of 2021 were you the happiest and felt the healthiest and most alive? Please share your stories below. The more we learn, listen, grow, the more we help ourselves and others. How will you start 2022 on a positive note to be your true authentic hot self? Are you ready? Every day I am learning and trying to be better for myself and you. I struggle every day with anxiety and stress, especially during holidays and the end of the year. Am I doing the right thing? Should we keep going? Yes, we should & do it spicy. Plus, it makes us pus...
2021-12-22 20:50:40 +0000 UTC
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Anything sex-related gets shut down, but guns don’t. Does that make sense? Closing down strip clubs, adult Craigslist, Backpage, and any sex-related websites bring more crime and hate in the world. People need sexual release, touch, connection, and if people are forbidden to go to a club or find an esc*rt or masseuse online. What happens? You don’t think of these luxuries until they are gone. Who is making this happen? Conservatives, Republicans, religion, politics are a few reasons. If you are a sex-healthy positive person, please start sh...
2021-12-15 01:28:55 +0000 UTC
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Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, think about it, but I don’t masturbate enough. I am guilty, just like you. We get busy, make excuses, or don’t think about it. Ready to change that? It is the end of the year, and we get busy and forget to take time to explore ourselves, our body, our vessel, and guess what it’s free fun, and you learn more about YOU! The more we learn and love ourselves first, the happier we can connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends, religion, work who usually...
2021-12-11 00:04:09 +0000 UTC
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5 Sexy date ideas in your own home! What's your favorite sexy at-home date idea? Do you have one or many? We get busy, have kids and a family, or most of the time; we just make excuses. No more excuses! Today is the perfect day to plan a passionate, fun date right at home. 1. Roll play/dress up and perform a striptease lap dance 2. Cook an aphrodisiac (a food, drink, or drug that stimulates sexual desire) meal together. 3. Watch porn together and roll different play scenes 4. Get some baby oil and massage each other up and down all around. Don...
2021-12-08 00:40:30 +0000 UTC
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Are my photos and post too risque for Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok etc.? Have you ever taken #boudoir sexy photos? It's the holiday season, and I recommend booking a session; you will love it! Ready to feel sexy, confident, empowered after a photoshoot? A self-care gift to you is to learn and love yourself first by booking a photographer or asking a friend to take sexy photos of you. Go get your hair and makeup done, buy, borrow, or wear a bra and underwear, lingerie, or a sexy outfit. You are sexy, confident, and ready to make the rest of the y...
2021-12-07 04:13:39 +0000 UTC
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What is selfcare Sunday all about? A time to slow down, a time to feel yourself and express your needs if only to yourself. It’s easy to get caught up in what others want around you on a daily basis, but take a day to be selfish. Take time to breathe, check in with yourself, feel your sweet sexy self and treat you right! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-12-05 23:06:11 +0000 UTC
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Do you journal or track your big O's? Your food intake? Your walking steps? Your period? Your poops? What about drinks-alcohol, sodas, juices? Illegal drugs and or over-the-counter drugs? Vitamins? Do you pay attention and think about what you are doing? I know I need to focus and be more aware. We all do! Are you ready to reboot your life and join me on this journey? I am so ready!!! Super excited to share my story but please share your deepest stories & questions!! What is this reboot program, you might be asking? The last 25 years in the...
2021-12-03 22:17:16 +0000 UTC
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What are the best sex positions to use a vibrator? Did you read last week's @drresa Instagram post where Shape magazine interviewed me with questions below? So here are my answers to the best person on top position that you can include with a vibe? Who's holding the vibe? What's great about these positions?
There are so many amazing on-top positions with or without a vibrator. Let’s talk about the different positions and how you can bring your fingers, sex toys, or vibrators into the equation. There are many sex toys, from different speeds,...
2021-11-29 21:57:45 +0000 UTC
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What are the best sex positions to use a vibrator? What's the best girl on top position that you can include with a vibe? Who's holding the vibe? What's great about these positions?
What are the best sex positions for two vulva-owners who want to share the vibrator in the sexual experience? A couple of examples would be lotus or scissoring?
Why is adding a vibe to oral sex so damn hot? Is there a super intimate sex position that you'd recommend for folks who like to feel snuggly and close? Spooning or any others?
Any tips for solo-touch or ma...
2021-11-23 20:50:36 +0000 UTC
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Did you know I was a stripper/accountant in my 20’s? Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
2021-11-16 21:54:50 +0000 UTC
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What did you do today to keep your spirits high? I don't watch the news or TV like I used to. Mainly because of my anxiety, I decided to listen to music more, dance & sing again & take more pictures for Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Patreon, Onlyfans, Fancentro, videos for YouTube, TikTok! The more I practice blogging vlogging, this lessens my insecurities & I get more confidence in my writing & talking! What do you do when you see your vision, but the wall is in your way? I am ready to break it free...Romeo Blue, my dog is alwa...
2021-10-30 23:35:26 +0000 UTC
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Have you ever been given a lap dance before? Have you ever received a lap dance? Perfect time to start the lap dance moves right before the holidays. Lap dancing to me is foreplay, role play, connection, and a time to have fun! Enjoy & share the following teaser video clip on EbyResa’s how to lap dance and striptease—interested in watching more videos? Download and practice all the striptease lap dance moves on my site and buy the DVD/streaming on Amazon. Great holiday gifts! Remember to keep your partner engaged. Always smile, laugh, a...
2021-10-29 13:33:12 +0000 UTC
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The perfect place to massage your breasts and get to know your body is in the shower! Breathe, relax and take your time learning and loving your body inside and out. How do you clean your vulva, vagina, penis, scrotum, and or anus? How do you feel when you clean your genitals? It's important to learn sex and healthy positive steps to be more aware & connected. Are you ready to learn more about your body and find out what you love & enjoy? This builds self-love and confidence. A daily practice I recommend is to take your time and underst...
2021-10-27 23:31:31 +0000 UTC
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Is masturbation one of your habits? Do you self-touch and self-explore every day? When you touch yourself, do you use your hands and fingers? Or do you use a dildo, vibrator, or a sex toy? What’s your form of getting excited to self-pleasure yourself? Pornography or sexy photos on your phone, computer, DVDs, VHS tapes, magazines, or a fantasy/imagination? Have you tried mutual masturbation with your partner? What about spicing up your self-care regimen with different positions, a new location, not using porn or a toy, and trying something dif...
2021-10-25 01:51:53 +0000 UTC
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What did you do this week to relax, release & connect with Yourself? Did you stop and take 3 sexy breaths every hour? This helps me stop, breathe, meditate, & get back to now & living & feeling Love & Connection! I work on this every day & it's still a struggle. You? I would love to hear what you're going to do today to stop & listen & love yourself? Tell me below? xoxo, DR #drresa
2021-10-23 14:45:05 +0000 UTC
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Would you date a stripper or a sex worker? I would love to hear your stories and thoughts. Please comment below. Most people are intrigued, excited, willing to date, or have sex with someone in the sex industry. When it comes to the long term, meeting the family or coworkers is a different story. Why do you think that is? The people I have dated were concerned about their image, religious beliefs, the family accepting a person who is not the same as them, and why you would date someone who connects with others. This leads to guilt, shame, being...
2021-10-21 16:48:07 +0000 UTC
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